Becoming all of who you are
This title is problematic. It reflects a paradox that is worth exploring. So much of our lives are taken up with the pursuit of becoming something. The ongoing self-improvement project. This effort may take us away from our current experience, it may be an avoidance tactic, driving ourselves forward, always wanting to be somewhere other than where we are. A way of distracting us from the present moment, which is after all, the only time or place where anything actually happens. In our pursuit to become something other than who we are, we leave parts of ourselves behind. These are [...]